Friday, February 27, 2009

Daily Devotional

How interesting that I just wrote about my wonders between ritual and real worship and then I receive this devotional email. It's good and I wanted to share it with you! (maybe this could be your devotional for today)

James 1:26-27 – 26 If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight reign on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless. 27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted from the world.

Which do we have…do we have rutted religion…or real relationship?

Let’s break it down in smaller pieces and try to get a better handle on what James is saying here.

§ If anyone considers himself religious – that just has ‘I’m a good person’ written all over it doesn’t it? I’m religious…I’m a good person…I go to church…I tithe my money…I give to Annie Armstrong and Lottie Moon…I go to Sunday school, I even volunteer on a couple of committees…I listen to southern gospel music, I forward religious emails…etc…etc…etc.
§ Yet does not keep a tight reign on his tongue – Mouth Management - interesting that the first correlation James makes to authentic godliness is how one handles their speech! What is the primary cause of most of our problems relationally in our families and friendships inside and outside the church? The way we manage our mouths and if we are truly born again, our tongues must be controlled for as James says in chapter 3, it is a fire set on fire by hell…Jesus also said in Matthew 12:34 – For out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks. The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him…by your words you will be acquitted and condemned. James took this one step further in 4:13 – Now listen, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money’. Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead you ought to say, ‘If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” As it is, you boast and brag. All such boasting is evil. What do we boast with? Our mouths!
§ He deceives himself and his religion is worthless – the person rutted in religion is living a hypocritical and self condemned life…he is living a lie…on the outside on Sunday, he may look like an angel dressed up nice and hair looking handsome, but on the inside he is utterly and completely dead to God and engulfed in his flesh. He has deceived himself…he has a religion that is worthless – all of his efforts are like filthy rags unto a Holy God. That’s rutted religion and it is worthless.
§ Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this – those acts of good works that the almighty God considers worthy of acceptance to him and truly a priority…such as…
§ to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted from the world – God takes us from the pride and arrogance of a self-exalting and boastful mouth to what God truly wants from those who are really his servants…giving of ourselves to others. True religion that is accepted by God as pure and faultless is not about you, it’s about what you can do for the most helpless in our society…those that have been forgotten…those that cannot defend themselves…those that have no one else…those are the ones that God wants you to spend your time with…and as you do this, you will keep yourself from being stained by the world. How can we be enticed to sin when we are out serving orphans and widows? Have you ever thought about that? God has a little purifying mechanism built into this verse for you – if you take care of orphans and widows, you will not have time nor will Satan have the opportunity to snare you into his web.

Are you enslaved by rutted religion…or have you been set free by a real relationship?

Most people are legalistic in the way they understand God. They think that they have to do something repeatedly over and over to become good enough to win God’s favor, so they will be accepted by Him. That is not the way that Christianity functions.

Salvation is by faith in Christ alone. One becomes a Christian by hearing the Word of God, being convicted of their sinfulness by the Holy Spirit, having their mind opened to the reality of their situation and believing in Jesus as the Son of God that died to take away the sin of the world.

Galatians 2:20 – 20 I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.

Did you catch the part of the verse that said…but Christ lives in me? There is the relationship! The Son of God through repentance and faith has come to dwell in your soul through the presence of the Holy Spirit…that is the relationship. When you have a relationship with somebody how do you know you have a relationship with them? You think about them, you long to talk to them, you have affections for them, you want to help them – they become a part of your life…same with the Almighty God – He comes to live in your body when you come to repentance and faith in Christ. This is not rutted religion…this is a real relationship.

People that have not been born again, but think they have because they did a few religious things can deceive themselves for their entire lives in the church…sitting there Sunday after Sunday, month after month…year after year…thinking they have religion…but deceiving themselves.

The harsh truth is that in reality they do have plenty of relationships. They have relationships with everything else except the Savior…they have a relationship with their Bible…their favorite church pew…their favorite music…their preacher…their church building…their Sunday School room and their pot luck fellowship…their parking place…they have all that covered…it is highly organized and highly polished and it looks fantastic…but they have NO real relationship with God and they prove it every time they open their mouths.

So, the final question is how do I know if I’m in rutted religion or real relationship? Paul gives us a big help here in Galatians 5:16-26, a passage that you have heard the majority of your life, probably. Paul gives us a clear distinction between the works of the Spirit and the works of the flesh. Read Galatians 5:16-25.

As we live and the fire of trial comes upon us…how we respond will determine whether we are saved or not. Matthew 10:21-23 – Brother will betray brother to death, and a father child, children will rebel against their parents and have them put to death. All men will hate you because of me, but he who stands firm to the end will be saved.

So when all hell breaks lose and your faith is put to the test and you are squeezed…what comes out…flesh or Spirit? That will be a good indicator of whether you are in rutted religion or real relationship.

Philippians 2:5-11 – your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death – even death on a cross! Therefore God exalted Him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.


Believe, Pray, Grow, Serve, Give, Tell
Shelby Hazzard, Pastor

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Just one of those days...

This is the first time all day that my computer has been on.. I have been fighting the dreaded migraine for 2 days and today was much worse. After literally being down all day, around 5:30 I decided to get up, bathe the kids and cook them supper. We had yummy scrambled eggs, bacon, potatoes and juice. They loved it. I did too since I have been starving my headache all day with crackers and water. I'm still not too sure what foods trigger them , so during this time for me, I stay away from almost everything and it helps. Go figure. I must say that the last time I had a migraine was over 5 weeks ago so that is wonderful!

I did get some of my homework in this afternoon as well. Again, I highly recommend the study of Daniel by Beth Moore. Words can't describe the things God teaches you in this Bible study. Such a blessing! I'm half sorry to say that it has taken me this Bible study to draw close to God. Spending time with Him is something I should do everyday.. even if I don't have "homework." In the past few years I have really started to actually want to know and understand the Bible and to understand why we as Christians do some of the things that we do. Like rituals vs actual worship for example. Luckily I am surrounded by very strong Christian mentors and friends I can call upon.

Girl Scout cookies are in!! I will be delivering all day tomorrow if my headache stays away. I know everyone is excited to receive theirs! We have had ours for just a couple of days and I can tell already that we should have ordered more!

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Kids and Running.. or the lack thereof





Can you believe I have had these shoes for 3 weeks now and haven't ran the first mile in them yet?! This is T's busy busy season and I just haven't found the time to get started. I'm dying here!!! I even missed the new training class at the Y yesterday morning.. I will not be discouraged though! I will catch up.



I thought I would share a few pics of the kids that I took throughout the week. Poor KE doesn't get as much publicity for being at school all day everyday. When she is here, she loves playing with her brothers. They are always using their imaginations and I have recently discovered N doing it too. It's so cute.

Silly Goose posing



Just hanging out with Elmo chair



W got lots of pirate goodies from a birthday party at school.







N making sure he has the proper gear on as he says "Arggh Mateys!"





The kids performing their very own concert for me and daddy. KE is very creative in writing her own songs.



Today our preacher conducted his last Holy Communion with us as "his" congregation. He will be moving in a few weeks to Texas. I was touched as he realized that it was his last communion with us and he got choked up. He corrected himself by pointing out that we shall be in communion again together in Heaven. What a thought. Please pray for our church family as we go through a difficult transition period without a preacher. I pray for someone who will uphold scripture and is a true man of God. I also pray for Kent as he leaves this church family to lead a new congregation. He has helped open the doors in our church to some new ideas and deeper study of the Word.

After church, one of KE's friends came home to play with her. They had a blast.


I decided to get a little creative this week by making my own two-bite brownies. They turned out wonderful.





Last but cert. not least, I made these delish brownies from Bakerella's blog. My chocolate ganache turned out a bit runny but it's so good. I will be sharing the love tonight with friends!


Tuesday, February 17, 2009

I need your advice!

ALL of the baseboards and molding in my house is painted with oil based paint.. It's okay on upper molding but on the baseboards and trim, it's terrible, esp if you have children. The stuff chips off and quite frankly I'm sick of looking at it! Anyone out there have any tips to repainting oil based baseboards please pass the info along.

I have gotten on a redecorating itch and it makes T afraid... very afraid. I hope to have the living room painted by the end of March and new drapes! ( oh and the stinkin baseboards redone) I will keep you posted.

Monday, February 16, 2009

Valentines Weekend....

The BBTN clothes are tucked away ready to be shipped to thier next location for shows. Now that that is done, I can get back to CLEANING! It's never ending isn't it?

Saturday night we and a few friends met up for a dinner of lobster and tenderloin. Delish. We hardly ever get to have grown up time with Shelby and Angie and this was a nice treat. Plus they got to meet some of our other friends...





Before we left for the night, we decided to meet again Sunday night at our house for homemade chicken alfedo pizza. KE was so happy to actually have a girl over. It's always baby boys!

KE showed AG her make up kit..
sweet baby Doty didn't know what to do with himself with all the kids playing.. loud I may say!

"uncle T"with Luke... trying out the duck call..

I can't tell you how much fun the boys had with the turkey decoys
This makes me think of the future when all the boys will be off hunting and the girls can go to the beach!!

Friday, February 13, 2009

2 Days Left

Hi all... The BBTN clothes are up and ready for lookers and shoppers. I have really enjoyed seeing and hearing all the oohhs and aahhs over the clothes. I know it makes the owners proud!




I would love to see you this weekend.. Today until 7 tonight: Tomorrow from 10-2 and Sunday if needed from 2-5! That is, if you aren't reading this from Calamzu!





Monday, February 9, 2009

I love it!

I went to Brandon this past weekend for a BBTN trunk show at a close friend's house and when I walked in the door, this is what I saw!

Kristina made this esp. for me as a belated birthday present. What a wonderful, thoughtful friend! Thank you Kristina!

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Can't hold back.....

Okay, guys.. I wasn't going to do this but I can't hold back any longer. I have like 50 pictures, but i'm just going to share a few. This is the BBTN line I'm selling all this week..... if you haven't planned on coming to a show.. you really ought to.. this is just a peek.. there is lots more!





okay, so my boys are too big for this one.. but how sweet is this?!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

BBTN


Hi all! Thought I would write a few lines and share. KE had her first grade play last week called "The Runaway Snowman" and she was the snowman! She did a great job even though she was extremely nervous. She loves to act and sing.



The boys are starting to actually play together and I love to watch. I hope they are the best of friends growing up.
Other than that, not much new going on around here! Just gearing up for BBTN trunk shows. I should get the clothes in today and it's always like Christmas because there are always adorable surprises!
Here is my schedule of shows if any of you are interested contact me for details!
This Friday and Saturday in Jackson
Feb. 10 Clarksdale
Feb. 11 Lake Village, AR
Feb 12 Cleveland
Feb. 13 and 14 Leland ( my home show)

Here are a few more pics taken over the past couple of weeks....

you think he is happy about this wardrobe?